Always show which action is primary, and which is secondary.
Avoid two identical looking actions side by side as they take a lot longer to process and can be very confusing to the users.
Clearly show which action is 1️⃣ primary and which is 2️⃣ secondary.
Avoid having two action buttons look the same.
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